You Are a Boundary Beginner! Your strength is Self-Awareness. You recognize when you are comfortable and uncomfortable. You know what you think, want, and need. You have even tried speaking up when your boundaries have been crossed. Your Boundary IQ is Novice. You are on the right track!
The problem you face is that you feel disrespected! Talking about your boundaries is stressful and unproductive. You struggle to know how to get people to follow your boundaries. How frustrating!